Parashah Acharei Mot II

Although Parashah Acharei Mot II was a challenge to write about, I soon realized how relatable it is not only to myself but also to my daughter and, of course, Women of Reform Judaism. What stands out most to me is, “You shall not copy the practices of the land of Egypt where you dwelt, or the land of Canaan to which I am taking you; nor shall you follow their laws. My rules alone shall you observe, and faithfully follow My laws:  I the Eternal am your G-d” (18:3-18:4).” It is the first part that I chose to focus on.  

How is this relatable to my daughter? As the mother of a soon-to-be high school graduate, I hope I have instilled the value of not mimicking those around her. I have taught her to learn from others, but most importantly, to set her own path. We must learn from those who have come before us and those around us, but ultimately, we must decide for ourselves what our journey will be. I am so proud that she has made choices throughout her high school career that were in her best interest and not just following her friends.  

How is this relatable to WRJ? We are leaders in the Reform Movement, advocating for women and children in various ways. We, as an organization, should feel proud! We do not mimic our neighbors; we listen and observe what is happening around us and speak out for change when needed. WRJ can usually be found taking it even further by providing opportunities to act. I encourage you to review our Resolutions frequently under WRJ Advocacy on our website, as they are a great reminder of what WRJ has achieved. I am proud to be part of an organization that provides these advocacy resources. 

How is this relatable to us? As members of WRJ, we have many resources (Yammer Groups, WRJ Board Members, WRJ Staff Partners, to name a few) literally at our fingertips. We also have past leadership (through WRJ, our districts, and our own women’s groups/sisterhoods) that provide invaluable advice on a regular basis. These assets help me learn how I want to lead, what “speaks” to me, and what is important and needed by our District. I cannot imagine doing this task without seeing what has previously been done. 

I like to think that this Torah portion is saying to take the time to see what has happened around you, learn from the experiences and mistakes of others, and remember not to “copy” them – discover what the best option for you is!